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Originally Posted by OTW
The sister-mom I got at the beginning of my Pledge period is the sister-mom I still have today. In my chapter, the sister-mom you get at NM ceremony is permanent.
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It still is permanent, but it was more of an active relationship during the new member period. It just isn't as important in my chapter as big-little. Also, in my chapter people generally weren't as close to their sis-mom, who chose them, as they were to their big, since that relationship was mutually chosen.
Also, since we didn't allow people to take more than one sis-dot a year, there were always juniors and seniors that had to take them, so there were cases of sis-moms graduating half a semester after initiation. Having a soph. as a big ensured that they would still have an older sister who was active.
My sis-mom was a good sister, but wasn't as close as my big, however, one of my littles was one my sis-dots.