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Originally Posted by LucyKKG
I wouldn't be shocked if she changes her mind sophomore year. Hey, that's what I (essentially) did.
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Sometimes it takes actually getting out of the house and doing your own thing before you decide going greek is for you. My cousin was totally against joining a sorority her freshman year. I tried to bring it up and even wrote her a rec just in case she decided to go through recruitment at the last minute, but no luck. Then a bunch of her friends went through recruitment and she saw what a great way it was to meet people and have fun. Now she is ready to sign up and even wants Kappa!
I don't think you can talk someone into it, you just have to let them see all the positives and let them make their decision. Maybe just have one good talk with her about national connections, higher-than-average gpas, date parties (whatever her thing is!) and hope for the best.
