I would only speak this way to girls I really wanted to pledge at that i felt were a good asset to our chapter. I am very careful about not having rush infractions or getting a girl's hopes up who I don't think we will pledge. I just want to know what words of advice or encouragement I can give to a PNM to assure her that my chapter would be a good choice or to make her decision easier. I don't wan't to break any rules! Thanks for the advice! It is always a fine line between good, competitive rushing and dirty rushing! And in order to be panhellenic I don't think chapters should ever dirty rush!
