His PMs don't sound that bad to me. He actually has valid points about a 7am event. I wouldn't go either. As for voting on these events, it can't be a majority rule type of vote. If more than a third of brothers don't want to attend, there is a problem with the event. If you think that he will be a bad VP, follow the advice of James and throw your support behind someone else. If you go negative, he might still get elected and then you'll have to work with him anyway but you have this negative stuff to get over.
It seems to me that it is a personality conflict. Not everyone in a fraternity will be best friends or of like minds or ideas which is actually a good thing. If he is elected, you will need to adjust your thinking about him. In your original post you wrote that he "is also the only brother I CANNOT get to listen to me or take orders from me." Perhaps, it was a poor selection of words on your part, but let me tell you, no one ever ordered me in my sorority. As a president, you need to inspire in order to lead not order people.
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