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The first time around, my friends and I went to a club and had a slumber party at my apartment. To me, it was obvious that our "sleepovers" from high school were the thing we'd all be missing as we "grew up" and moved into our adult lives. We had a great time with junk food, board games and just talking.
Second time, well, most of my second husband's friends were already married so the "wives" were all going to a club to go dancing while they had a bachelor party at the best man's house followed by some bars. The guys were supposed to be gone from the house by 9 pm so the best man's wife could take her kids home and put them to bed. She had a babysitter coming to the house so she could then join us at a bar. Well, the guys and the stripper were all still there when she got there with her 2 yr. and 4 yr. old daughters and her husband just happened to be down to his boxers and dancing with the stripper when she walked in. Can we say "Bad Scene?" The rest of the night was pretty much ruined for us because Jody was so upset, swearing she was divorcing him, etc. She did look at me and say "You're marrying the right guy, he was the only one who had all his clothes on." Yeah, my ex is pretty conservative and would've been happy with just a golf outing.. wasn't into the whole stripper thing but his married buddies all wanted it. So, the whole night was pretty messed up and chaotic. Those two are still married, but it did take a while for things to be right between them again. Ugh!
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