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DisneyDoll,

I have a couple of thoughts on this:

1. As you may or may not know, there are rules that sorority women have to follow with regards to contact with Porential New Members ("PNM's") prior to recruitment. it sounds like they MAY be in violation of them, or at least close to being so. This could be a rush infraction ("dirty rush") that could cause problems for this particular sorority. Have you already registered for recruitment? This is something that the panhellenic adviser should be made aware of. I'd hate to see it impact YOU negatively as you go through recruitment.

2. You have to ask yourself if you REALLY want to be in a sorority where a member would basically threaten you before you have even joined.

Only you can decide if you want to take her to the airport tomorrow. If you do, you may want to ask her about the remark. It is possible she meant it in joking (bad taste, if so), but it is still somewhat of a "veiled" threat IMO.

On the other hand, it's to your advantage to see this side of these particular ladies PRIOR to recruitment. I've said it before, but GO IN WITH AN OPEN MIND when you go through recruitment. I'd be wary if this happened to me. It's kind of a red flag in my opinion.

I don't envy you -- this is a crummy situation to be put in.

Good luck to you and do let us know what you decide.