I have an interesting one regarding a girl who decided to transfer colleges after freshman year and was going to rush at her new school as a sophomore.
I didn't write a no-rec for her, in fact, I recommended her, having known her and her family for years.
What happened was the alum group didn't let her rec go to the college.
Apparently, she had had an "interesting" year at her 1st college - sleeping her way through the guys, and that is why she was transferring. Of course, I didn't know any of this being apart from the situation. REALLY SAD because she was a sweet, intelligent girl who just went off the deep end - too much freedom that she didn't know how to handle, I guess.
I found out because I got thank you notes from the chapter for all the girls I had recommended except for her, so I contacted the alum club and they let me know.
Goes to show, reputations matter and follow you around wherever you go...
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