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Not only the meetings and organization ideas maggie suggested (which were awesome) - but you all need to redefine what sisterhood is to each and every member. i can understand why you wouldnt want to drive 45 min to a club on a school night...but i can also see why they might be miffed because you dont join them.
it just seems these girls are...just very inmature and dont know exactly what being in a sorority means. i have a feeling that because all of the fighting going on that when elections come up again - they are going to run you out of office and take over...from their previous suggestions possibly haze new members etc...and everything you worked hard to accomplish will be down the toilet.
my advice would be to listen when they come to you with a suggestion. before cursing at them or getting angry because you think its absurd, suggest that everyone get together and discuss it as a group. maybe there are some other people who feel the same as you do and can back you up - so you wont look like the bad guy. let the little things go...before those little things destroy friendships and NBO. im not saying to just hand over all responsibility to them...but approach things more easy going - instead of saying no way, say lets all talk about it...state your opinion and let the others state theirs...if everyone out votes you, then so be it. this should be the best time for you all - and i hope through some organization it can be soon!
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