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Old 07-15-2008, 11:36 PM
UGAalum94 UGAalum94 is offline
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My guess is that Just Interested has in mind the jerk girl who has to tell everyone how she only has eyes for certain groups and that crosses the line into rudeness in her attitude toward others. She's the PNM who is likely to ask to use the restroom during your group's party and stay gone the whole time to telegraph her disinterest (despite having opportunities to use the restroom between events).

In that case, you might be think, no rec her so she's gone early and let them focus on girls who would be worth rushing.

Personally, I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't want to deprive the chapter of deciding to.

ETA: when I said I might mention her interest in my rec for a girl I did like, it would just be so the chapter would have a realistic understanding, not so they'd cut her. Maybe like a comment, "Suzy PNM has several friends in XYZ but I hope you all make her feel equally at home." If the chapter has to release someone, I'd rather they keep girls with genuinely open minds or at least girls who hadn't already revealed their biases. If release figures turn it into a guessing game, I'd want the chapter to have the most information.

But honestly, even in cases where I suspected a lack of genuine interest, I never said anything in the rec. I have the same attitude of wait and see how recruitment actually goes. If she's likely to be a great member, that's what is really need to know.

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