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Originally Posted by Just interested
Alright, I am going to through this out for discussion. What if you know someone is going elsewhere and absolutely has no interest in your group.and you don't want your girls to waste their time? Do you A. write the rec and say nothing B write the rec but tell them C No Rec them to force a cut
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What you have described is pretty close to the circumstance for which I just didn't write the rec at all. I figured it would sort itself out.
Now, if I actually liked the girl, but knew she was more interested in a different chapter, I might write a positive rec but tell them the circumstances of her connection to XYZ.
Some of what I want for PNMs that I know and like is simply for them to form a positive impression of my GLO, even if they end up with bids elsewhere. Not so much so they're all "zowza, UGAalum is even more awesome than I thought," but because it's a PR thing for the chapter to be well thought of. They have a better shot at being well thought of if they rush well. To rush well, they need info about the PNMs. So, I'd write a rec that let them rush well.