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Originally Posted by 33girl
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Because the PNM sucks and she doesn't want to put her name on something recommending her?
Because she doesn't know the PNM from Adam and she doesn't want to recommend someone who she knows nothing about?
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If an alumna knows a PNM is not a good candidate for membership, it would seem like filling out a rec is even more important.
And in the second instance, you could at least pass along the information that you did have, particularly if it's a campus that doesn't have potential new members fill out a ton of information. I don't think anyone is advocating just filling out recs at random for strangers. But if you could easy get information of benefit to the chapter and the girl, is it really asking that much? I'm also kind of cynical because I don't think chapters pay that much attention to who recommends candidates anyway unless they are current active members or recent alumnae. But filling our a RIF with honest information about how you know the candidate or where you got your info. isn't really putting yourself out there that much, but it might help the chapter a lot.