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Originally Posted by luv n tpa
That kid will come out shnoz first.
Last night was the first time I saw this season, and even I knew she was an idiot for picking Scruffy.
Jesse's ring was heinous, IMO. You would think that with the show supplying the ring for you, you'd choose something a little nicer.
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I loved the ring Jesse chose. I didn't like the one Jason selected.
I liked Jesse and Jason all along. If you go way back in this thread you'll see that. I liked that Jesse did and said what he wanted; there was no doubt to me that he was genuine the whole way through. Jesse could make a whole career out of snowboarding if he wants to, between being a pro now, running his non-profit later, and he could open a snowboarding school for quite a big profit I'm sure if he wanted to. There's nothing wrong with that. But DeAnna better not expect him to totally change because of her, and the problem is that I get the feeling she's expecting him to leave snowboarding behind, cut his hair (per her dad's requirement), and take a job doing God knows what down in Georgia. She picked him because he's unpredictable and exciting; I'm no psychologist, but my guess is that because of her dramatic childhood (her mom dying when she was young), she's seeking drama. What's sad is that if Jesse does "conform" the way I think she'll eventually want him to, and the way her dad will want him to, he'll be unhappy and she'll be bored.
Jason seemed caring, stable and family-oriented, but maybe that made him boring. DeAnna's comment about her life being planned out if she chose Jason is true - she just wouldn't have the wild time with Jason that she would with Jesse. She's going for the exciting, puppy dog love with Jesse, not the comfortable, nurturing love of Jason.
And props to whichever of you said that it takes more than love to make a relationship work. To quote the great Don Henley, "There's a danger in loving somebody too much, and it's sad when you know it's your heart you can't trust, there's a reason why people don't stay where they are, baby sometimes love just ain't enough."