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Originally Posted by christiangirl
We're not, but the nosy family members think we are--that's the joke. 
I've decided I'm not looking for anyone to date and I'd . If a man falls into my lap, then great, but I think I'd prefer not to date at all until I graduate and move. School takes up too much of my time to go looking for "The One." Besides, I've decided that God hasn't given him to me because he's not ready yet. God knows I deserve more than half-baked! I want him to be done with all his foolishness and ready for a life with me before I meet him. I can wait.  |
It might just be that you're not ready yet. You have professional (i.e. school and career) and personal things to iron out.
Sure, the man might be getting ready for you, but
he might be fully ready and God is having him wait while
you get ready.
Or you're both not ready.
You won't know until you know. Your post is very mature and patient, though.