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I have a pretty mediocre big.
The first problem was that they assigned my someone I'd NEVER met or even seen around. She was on food duty during recruitment, so while everyone was hugging at diamond sister reveal, I was introducing myself.
Then I found out how busy my big really is. She is rarely at the house, never at chapter (some kind of conflict), and misses most of the non-mandatory events. She is also less enthusiastic about sorority life than your average big. Even today, I'm not 100% sure why she's in a sorority at all.
The good news is that my big is actually a really cool person and we have a lot in common. It just took me a long time to figure that out because we so rarely saw each other or talked. This year I'm moving into the house and she'll be living right across the hall, so I think things will get better.
But it does motivate me to be a dedicated big. I can't wait!
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