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Originally Posted by ausguals
Basically, I'm going to tell him straight up how I feel and I'll see where that goes. Face to face. Which is probably going to be a whole lot harder, but its probably what we (or I) need.
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Girl, it's hard, but so worth it.
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Originally Posted by ausguals
It's college. Yes, I love him, but maybe we aren't supposed to be together during it....I didn't really think of it as a "break up" issue as much as i saw it as a need to "fix things," but most people are saying the opposite of what I thought.
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It really depends on what YOU want. We can only give advice from our own perspectives and backgrounds. If this relationship is really just for college, it sounds like you're in a bit too deep already. The longer you stay together, the deeper you'll fall. In that case, it's probably best to get a bit less serious.
If you think he's marriage material (and if that's what you ultimately want), it's a very different scenario and you really have to be critical. As women, I think we only hurt ourselves by getting too deeply involved with men when we're not really sure what we're looking for.
You gotta have a plan.
I kinda wish I'd had an older sister when I was 18-22 who could have knocked me straight in a lot of my relationships.