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Originally Posted by christiangirl
^^^No. But I don't think it's all their fault. Nowadays, women are so burnt out over the "Hey shawty whatchyo name is?" that if a man walked up and said "Excuse me, Miss Lady, I just wanted to tell you that your eyes are beautiful." one might just snap and diss him like any other. That was the chief complaint from guys in college--if they tried to talk to a girl, they'd be rude like the male had just lifted their skirt or something. The female rebuttal was that it was all they knew a guy to do so they assumed the respectfulness to be a façade. Sad that that's the state of things. I would for that to happen...with a man that doesn't need a complete physical overhaul.  |
But it is really not that difficult to get rid of the buttwipes... All you have to do is starting talking about Jesus and how He saves.... And that comment is like Raid, it removes all the roaches...
I'd test a fool and invite him to chutch, tell him he needs Jesus and I will pray for him... See if he shows up and what he shows up in... If dude runs away--then you know he is a fool.
If dude actually does show up, and helps that one old lady deacon that knows all the rules of incorporation of the chutch, but ain't nunna her chilluns show up to chutch on mother's day or Christmas, then that's a gentleman you keep...
Hayle, we got some of my elder sorority sistah on lock when we need some sizing done... And don't even begin to start me on how all my dad's fraternity brothers started evaluating my husband before we got married...
Y'all don't work with older folks and recruitment do you?