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I am guessing here, but were some of these things issues before you transferred? And maybe you thought that being closer would make it easier for him to meet your emotional needs? Sounds like you've made him your world and he is not making you a priority. I was in a similar situation many years ago. We spent the summer apart (with him making little effort to talk or visit) and I realized how much happier I could be without him, so I broke up with him. He was completely shocked but should have seen it coming.
I know it's hard to think this way now, but it's not worth being in a relationship that is so much WORK. If you give 95% and he gives 5%, you will either be miserable or single in the long run. My advice is to tell him exactly what you expect, no room for miscommunication. If he doesn't step up to the plate, leave his behind and find someone worth your while.
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