To the OP, it seems like you're burned out. Also, other posters are talking about the "Fraternity's" values but you said "the house [your] in does not have these same beliefs". Is it the guys that your not getting along with? I would think if you had an issue with the organization, that would have come to light earlier.
Whether or not your allowed to pledge another group depends on the rules for that group. Ask yourself this, would you want a guy to join your chapter after already being an active brother for two years at another chapter? How do the chapters at your school react if a pledge dp's before initiation and tries to pledge another chapter? If nobody is cool with that then there's no way they'd be cool with your situation.
My advice would be to take a semester and be as minimally involved as possible. This is to blow off steam and take a step back from any drama in the house. Then, the following semester, come back strong. Seek out brothers that share your beliefs regarding the chapter. Actively support these brothers in their positions and take on a position that will allow you to improve the chapter.
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