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Originally Posted by prepster
I've been a member of my fraternity, call it ABC, for 2 and a half years now. I have held all kinds of positions and have lived in our house my entire time here. However, this past year I have found myself constantly questioning whether this house is the right place for me. I joined as a freshman for all the wrong reasons, and now I have a bunch of friends in other fraternities and feel that I would fit in other houses so much better. My question is, is there a way to disaffiliate with fraternity XYZ and rush/pledge another house this upcoming fall???
I really love greek life and what it stands for, but right now, the house I'm in does not have these same beliefs. Please help me. Thanks!
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My advise to you is this:
Think over and ask yourself this question: do I want to fight to save my chapter? If not, then transfer, and my suggestion there would be to a school that does not have a chapter of your fraternity. If yes: then, blackball anyone and everyone who doesn't live up to YOUR standards, recruit other brothers who feel the same, and change the culture of your group. That's hard.
Either way, Good luck.