Look at it this way...when you're single you can have tons of no-strings-attached sex, date multiple people even at the same time, and you can flirt with who ever you want.
If you're not getting enough attention, change where you hang out and who you hang out with. This made a HUGE difference for me, within the last year. I think many of you are making the mistake of avoiding bars. That's where you will find MANY MANY other single people...for fucking, for relationships, or just for friendships. Playing sports is another good way to meet single people.
It's not a time for tears

it's a time for joy