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Originally Posted by christiangirl
Anyway, I wouldn't say I'm lonely and depressed; it's not quite that dire. I just want some male company. Someone to come over and watch a movie on the couch with, maybe call me sometime or go to Dave and Buster's with. SOMEBODY PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!! lol I'm not looking right now, but it's taking all of my self-control not to be.  |
Welp, personally, you are not old enough to be that leacherous, but basicallly are you asking us, the GC, should you pursue a "Fcuk Buddy"? Cuz that's what it sounds that's what you would like... LOL.
I mean, hey, be real. Nothing's wrong with that. The deal is for these kind of ADULT relationships, the person is NEVER there when you need him/her. And they hardly are "satisfying".
Now, if you just want a "friend" who happens to be a male (a real one born with a penis and a scrotum), the ONLY fellas I know willing to be like that are ghey... Most young men and some old one's to ain't gonna to that too long without you puttin' out. Now they may wait for a month at the longest... But that's about it. They can find a chick who will do that an then some where they write home to their mama's telling them he's gonna marry her--or the two get caught up with a pregnancy.
If you enjoy flowers, movies, etc.--hey, get them yourselves. Most men aren't giving those items from the beginning of a situational/relationship. And I'd be worried if I got all these "presents" from jump.
And a note from a former dry seasoned woman: If you want the kind of relationship you described, then fix dinner for a guy friend. Ask what's his favorite meal and attempt to make it. If he's too anal about it, I wouldn't invite him over to your house. And, if you go over there, always be bearing "food gifts"--like cookies, cupcakes, etc.