[violetpretty]

Like I said, I don't think you should necessarily have "parties" or "events", even the low-key ones you describe. You're missing my point of the individual level of recruitment. Befriend women by doing "normal friend things" together for a week or two before you introduce them to your sisters (as individuals/friends) and then to your sorority. In your situation, it appears that fliers, and publicizing events are not working, so stop beating a dead horse.