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Originally Posted by srmom
Your wife must be a saint, either that, or she doesn't know quite what your looking at getting into.
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I must admit, my first thought too was, what is his wife thinking? From your posts, you "sound" like a good guy and like someone who may very well have a great fraternity rush, 30s or not. But I would be concerned about your relationships at home when you get hip-deep in. I mean, mixers with 19 and 20-year-old sorority women (many of whom will likely have imbibed heavily)? Trust is the foundation of any good marriage, but sheesh, I think that would test anybody's limits.
So on the one hand, I wish you well and think you would get some great things out of joining a fraternity to enhance your college experience, but as a married woman, I'd caution you to be very VERY sensitive to your wife and if concerns or insecurities pop up for her when you get into it.