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Last year, a close friend a mine had a baby mid-semester. The only thing is she didn't tell us until after she had the baby. Believe or not she concealed her pregnacy from us for 7 1/2 months because I guess she didnt know how we would take it. So over spring break she never came back and then in April she sends all of us an email saying that she had a baby and thats why she hasnt returned to school. We all kept in contact the rest of that year and throughout the summer but with her working and having the baby by herself and with all of us still at school how do you include her in out activites. I miss her so much. Eventually she stopped writing us. One of our friends went to see her for her birthday( they stay in the same city) but she just has so much stuff going on. I want to call her but its sad because so much time has passed and she has had to go through so much by her self not that I didnt want to be there for her but sometimes you just have to wait until people ask for your help. But I dont want my hesitancy and this akwardness to cost a good friendship. ANd I want to be there for her but then agian I dont want to intrude. What do you all think I should do???
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