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Originally posted by James
Actually guys, when you start pledging you haven't made that life long committment yet. You are testing your suitability for that organization both nationaly, and even more so, the local chapter.
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Honestly James, I didn't realize we were talking about a new member situation. Obviously I skipped the part about his pledge brothers or I just assumed he was coming to that realization about his pledge class after the fact.
But mostly, my advice still stands. Ryan obviously joined for a reason and I think he should really consider that. Also, how long has he been pledging? If he joined very recently, maybe he's just getting a negative perspective from a few jerks. If he's close to initation, does he really want to make it all for nothing? I don't mean to say "deal with it" but in every chapter there has to be at least one person who acts like an asshole. There have been times when I wanted to quit, but it was always because of a few nasty people, not the majority of the chapter.
I just think that when anyone considers leaving their GLO, it should be a well thought out decision.