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Problems with org
I totally agree with LeslieAGD-You have to look at the bigger picture of the fraternity.
You joined for a lifetime and 4 years of college is a very small portion of your life. Just keep in mind all of the ideas of your org. that you really stand by and how they define you as a person. I have had some very serious problems in my org., DGP~Honey, can vouch for that, but I did not quite. No matter how bad people treat you, you have to rise above that. You have to get to the point where you do what it takes to make yourself happy in the org. If that means pulling away from some of the brothers, so be it.
Look at it this way, if there are some people in the org. who only drink, smoke, and get bad grades, they will probably disaffiliate themselves after college anyways. So really you have nothing to worry about.
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