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not so great
I'm not so great with advice along these lines, but I do know that I recently dealt with the issue of depledging/disaffiliating with two of my closest sisters. There is ALWAYS something that can be done, either by you or your fraternity to fix situations. And I'm sure the Fraternity men on here will be better to talk to you about this than me, but I do know that if you depledge you'll be sorry down the road. You joined a brotherhood for a reason...if you all of a sudden don't have any part of it anymore you'll definitely miss it. Not all of it, because the hassles will be over, but you will miss the parts of it that are most important to you that you may be too foggy too see right now. So best of luck and my only advice is to hang in there.
You can't fix something if you leave and if your fraternity means as much to you as my sorority does, then you'll stick around and find some way to fix the situation with the help of the brothers you are closest to.
Good luck...life will get easier...
Tara
to practice day by day love, honor, truth
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