Oh no, I was hoping they would both go through and pledge. Daughter was dropped during formal recruitment - lots of tears, probably more on my part than hers. Then again, I was kind of relieved my chapter was no longer on campus - she probably would have turned up her nose at them LOL!
She eventually pledged through COB, but was never as active as I was in the sorority.
Her twin brother - I did not really expect him to pledge a fraternity, just not his personality. He did eventually pledge a sort of "non-traditional" fraternity - much like his father - and had many of the same experiences as in any fraternity, just without a house and a lot of the hazing.
Now we're working on the grandchildren angle...