Like srmom, my first did not want to rush. He was involved in a sport and didn't feel he had the time. My daughter went through rush as a freshman and ended up in tears. She was determined to go through again although I have to admit, I did discourage her somewhat. At her school, there is a seperate quota for upperclasswomen but rerushing is hard. She did rush and had a wonderful rush and is so happy in her sorority. She has always been very independent and my discouraging her did not matter at all.
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