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Old 06-12-2008, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted by FSUZeta View Post
"Also new girls need to understand that the Big/Little relationship, while important, is not neccessarily the most important relationship you will ever have within the sorority. I think there's a HUGE misconception in sororities that your Big Sis will be your BFF in the chapter and you will be so super close. That's just not true. I love my Big of course and we are very good friends but she is not my closest friend from the sorority (my house room mate is actually). So there are girls you will be closer to who are not your Big Sis, and that's okay.
Exactly - sometimes it happens, but sometimes not. My little & I weren't close because her best friend pledged at the same time - she already HAD a best friend in the chapter. My little little and I, on the other hand, are best friends, still.
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