I need to clear one thing up... this was just a question of curiousity. The reason that she wanted to know if the fraternity took any action was because she wanted SOMEONE to hold this guy responsible. He left her at 7 months pregnant, went to a neighboring city and no one knew anything about it. It wasn't right for him to be able to go off and live his life carefree (possibly even get another girl pregnant) and for her to have to face everyone with the mistake that they both made. This was the reason for the question.
In answer to some of your questions:
yes, she did know the risk of having sex with this guy. That is why she chose to keep the baby. He, on the other hand offered an abortion so that he would not have to face the consequences of his actions.
Yes, they had known and dated each other for a long time. They went to high school together and dated off and on during the four years. When they had both graduated and came home from school off at college, they saw each other again and began dating. It was during this 4 month interim that things "happened". So no, it was not a one night stand.
The baby is now almost 3 months old and he has still yet to contact her. I'm sorry, but that is just not right; he knew her due date and never even bothered to see how either of them were.At least she was responsible for her actions as he on the other hand was not.
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