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As you can see, these ladies have defined this activity as hazing-no question.
The WAY you present this to the girls is going to be key. Do you have ANYONE who is of a like mind? Or, are you totally out their pulling it all together by yourself? You need backup! Someone who can "second" your ideas. Since you are the liason between your members and the NPC, you may want to simply say-"We are under great scrutiny and this activity could be construed as hazing. Let's not alienate any NPC group or our new pledges."
Your stress level must be sky high with your studies and work with NBO.(Others may be stressing too and you just aren't aware) You really need someone to help you...if nothing more than to act as a buffer-back you up-and perhaps deal directly with those who like to critique rather than actually WORK to make thing go. DELEGATE-DELEGATE-DELEGATE! People on the OTHER side may be feeling left out, like their thoughts aren't important.
Everthing can not be perfect. To focus on perfection is asking for disappointment.
Yes, be strong like the oak, but be able to bend like a willow.
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