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Originally posted by Jamal5000
....wrong or right in your opinion?
Why or why not?
Jamal5000 
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IMO, WRONG. I think sex was intended for two consenting people who love each other and share a deep level of friendship and intimacy on the MARRIAGE level.
When you have sex with someone, you're sharing apart of yourself that's supposed to be sacred because two people are becoming one. I can't speak for all women, but for a lot, it takes a toll on emotions.
The more people you've had sex with, the more your emotions are spread out all over the place. John has a special place in your heart cause he was your first. Joe's got a place in your heart cause he was the best. Jimmy's got a place in your heart cause he was the biggest. Jeff has a place in your heart because even though he wasn't all that good in bed, he was a good boyfriend.
Come on now...by the time you get settled and ready to be married, you'll be emotionally drained
, not to mention all stretched out of whack
And no man wants something that's been all used up and stretched out (can any men attest?). With candy or foods you may want to sample before buying, but sex and marriage isn't the same. I may only be twenty years old, but the best advice about sex and marriage was given to me by my pastor and mother. Wait on God to lead you to your mate, and you'll be satisfied in all areas of the relationship, including sex.