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Originally Posted by faireststar
Dear Best Friend,
As your sister & someone who loves you, I’m sorry that you’re hurting. As me…. I can’t feel that sorry for you because you put yourself in that position. When you didn’t leave after the first time you were cheated on, then after you were disrespected, it let him know that it was okay to do so. Granted, he’s an idiot and he’s not worth the bullet it would take to kill him. True enough, he will NEVER find another woman who even comes close to you. But, you stayed. You stayed when I did all but beg you not to, and then you bought a house with him! Ugh. You could have been happy & drama free a long time ago. I stopped crying about your situation when I realized you really didn’t want to be out of it. I still love you, though.
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You're going through that, too, huh? I have a close friend in a situation just like the one you described. As of this past week, I've given up on trying to persuade her. She doesn't want out so I decided I will let her make her mistakes and I'll stand on the side and be there to help her pick up the pieces.
I don't know why some women feel like they can't be stronger than that.