Thread: Legacy Dilemma
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Old 06-04-2008, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted by taurus0426 View Post
No what I mean is she's saying why in regards to why would I join a WHITE sorority. If I joined any other D4 she'd probably be miffed but be like "at least its NPHC" like that's reinforcing I'm still black I'm starting to think this may be a generation clash.
If I was in your situation, here is what I would do:

Firstly, I would find out exactly what your mother believes about the NPHC organization she's a part of. I mean like...why does she think it is a worthwhile organization? When she says things like service, sisterhood, life long commitment, et cetera...relate those things to the NPC. Once she sees that you can still get a meaningful experience out of the NPC, I bet she'll come around.