The best thing you can do is to join your local alumnae chapter and participate. If you don't have an alumnae chapter, now is the time to work with your regional officer to form a strong chapter. While it won't be the same as having your campus-based chapter, it will allow you to stay in touch with your fraternity and maintain the bonds you've formed.
If there is already an established alumnae chapter, work with them to form a sub-group for younger alumnae like yourselves. The sub-group would plan some events separate from the 'main' alumnae chapter AND would participate with the 'main' group for some events like Founder's Day, etc.
A couple national groups already have programs in place. Alpha Gamma Delta has their Junior Circle program and Zeta Tau Alpha is developing their Loyalty Link program.
I can offer some additional suggestions - please e-mail me.
Barbara
Rush & ZTA Forum Moderator
President,
Tallahassee Alumnae Chapter