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Originally Posted by taurus0426
Okay now how should she be assisting me then? I know there's a special legacy form out there. I'm a very dilgent student so that's not a problem but why is it that when it comes to D9 organzations a person must do tons of research...
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When we say "research" we mean you walk into Rush knowing at minimum--and preferably the entire website of information with focus on the programs/initiatives Internationally, locally, at the undergraduate level and graduate level if that is what you have.
The answer to your follow question is below in response to Ladygreek's response:
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Originally Posted by ladygreek
Her mother hasn't been active since college. I doubt there is much she can do to assist her, since she would not know the current process. In fact, a mother's "help" can be to the detriment of the daughter...
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Ladygreek, some of the comments are meant for EVERYONE... 
That's the thing, a mother ought not be promoting her membership in her sorority if she is not active in an
NPHC sorority... That is my personal opinion. Because WE ALL PROMOTE LIFELONG MEMBERSHIP...
In my opinion it is a detriment to the daughter when she has failed to teach her right... Like what to wear at Rush, appropriate and respectful behavior toward the members while on campus. How is one going to aspire to become a member and disrespect said members by refusal to attend ANY FREE on-campus functions?
No, I am not saying that a mother "help" her daughter get into said D4 sorority--that is helicopterish--she ought not have "guaranteed" her membership like that. If she wanted her daughter to pursue membership so bad, then how come her daughter never attended a grad chapter function, talk to the UGs while in high school, go to Regional Conferences and International Meetings? Hayle, these kids apply for our scholarships, but where's the payback?
It is gotten to the point where we have to KNOW these kids and their families before they "stroll" into our Sororities--before they get into college...
