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Originally posted by AKA2D '91
Question 1:Is there ever a time which warrants that you TURN DOWN a proposal?
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YES. I should have several times...
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Question 2: If your mate proposes, are you to go ahead and say "yes" just because he or she proposes? I haven't really heard of anyone turning down a proposal. I have heard of people postponing and/or eventually calling off a wedding.
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I would hope a woman would have enough brains to turn down (in a polite way) if the feelings or the situation aren't right.
I speak from experience.
*The first proposal--we were too young, he was 20 and I was 19
*The second (I kid you not)-- The only thing we had in common was the fact that we had the same middle and last name.
*The third--He cheated on me
*The fourth--we dated a combined total of 10 years and he just couldn't get it together to commit
*The final fith
--we rushed it and didnt get to know each other (I should have known better
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Presently: Single and going to STAY that way for a long while...I'm not desperate
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Originally posted by Professor
To those under 30 - - - WAIT WAIT WAIT - Live, Learn , Enjoy and know thyself.
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I agree whole heartedly!!!