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i am also legacy of an unnamed d9 sorority...my mother and three aunts are xyz, as well as members of my fiances immediate family. i have been surrounded and immersed in all things xyz for as long as i can remember but my mother told me to follow my heart. i wound up somewhere different. i think she may have been a little disappointed, and after that my sister pledged completely different as well. instead of looking at it as a "betrayal", we look at it as combining our three sisterhoods and have actually done things together representing black women, not abc/xzy/123...because thats what its really all about.