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Originally Posted by 2GQ4U
That was part of my whole original post! I had no idea what the NPHC expectation of researching a desired organization was. I thought going up to or calling the Kappas I met would get me blackballed, and internet searching brought me here. I HATE blogs for exactly the reason of what is going on right now. I really felt I had no other choice. The Kappa Alpha Psi website has NO category for information for Prospective Applicants. What else do you propose I should have done? Stay quiet? I did not know how early I should try to get all of my ducks in a row before I make any type of suggestion to the Brothers that I am seriously interested in membership. I really thought I was being respectful in how I approached my questions, I later realized that I had broke rules in doing so, but that was honestly not my intention. I actually did think to message the moderator first, because if he is the moderator of the Kappa thread, he must be the right person to talk to, but I thought posting a thread would catch more attention.
I'm eager to go through the intake process because I want to show how much I am really willing to sacrifice, what I am willing to do, and to display my loyalty to the Fraternity. I really feel like I will become Kappa BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY, and I wanted to know if anyone else felt like this before they went through the process. I want to know if I'm really crazy for sitting on the computer watching a probate and imagining how good it must feel at that moment and hoping that one day I can be privileged enough to have that feeling because I really feel like a loser right now, forreal, and I have never felt anything like this.. I just honestly feel that Kappa Alpha Psi will help me to become a better man than I would be without it, and I believe that i can help contibute to the organization.
And I most definately was being judged. According you y'all I'm impatient, unable to pursue a fraternity, and in need of a mental evaluation... Last time I checked, those were judgments... Let me know if I'm wrong...
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Then tell us, what is your definition of judgment? Because I viewed the comments made as helpful hints actually trying to cheer you on as you accomplish your goals.
If it is NOT on the Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc. International website, you do not need to know it...
At best, the NPHC International website states you need to be in college and have a GPA for any fraternity membership.
This means, your first and foremost objective, primary objective is to be in college and become successful academically... That is the kind of things I have seen with most of the Kappa men who have influenced my life... One gentleman who is my godfather was the Surgeon General nominee in the mid-1990's under the Clinton Administration.
That means you start with that search and learn... Which also means you read between the lines.
When folks tell you to that you are impatient, that means you find patience...
Because I've got mine, and you need to get yours... So you can do this the way you are doing it, begging for spoon feeding, which I am giving to you now for some reason, and is the hard way--or--shut up, read--RESEARCH--and learn...
What does a wise man do?