What really got me during pref, when I was a PNM, was that during the ceremony and during one very special song, one of the members kept making eye contact with me and smiling at me. It made me feel like she was thinking of ME as they were saying these special words in the ceremony and the song. I was clearly her rush crush and she was mine, so she really sealed the deal by making that connection with me. If all the sisters are looking down or looking at each other, they seem disinterested in the PNMs. It seems small, but it was HUGE to me.
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