I already told my dude, I'm no longer interested in a wedding or a reception, I would LOVE to elope. I think that it would be romantic and intimate. He felt like our phamilies and friends would be upset, but I told him, this is US, not them. They can be mad, they will get over it. I see the headache people go thru planning these weddings and the money that's spent on them and the receptions, and that's money we could use to go to Africa or Europe. I'm all about eloping, and I don't even want Loverman to tell me, it can even be a surprise to me!
