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I used my degrees (BS, MS) for 11 years before staying home to have kids 1.5 years ago. I do think I will return to the work field one day, and it will be in the same career.

FWIW, my degrees don't really transfer well to other areas. I do have some friends with the same degrees that are now working in pharm sales, and one friend who works in info technology in the medical arena. We always have the management option, but that is not for me.

I do have friends who are not working in their majors at all, and have been very happy and successful.

I can't cite this- sorry- but I remember reading years ago that the average American changes career paths (not jobs, but actual careers) 4 times in their lifetime. Seemed kind of high to me, but maybe there is something to people choosing to pursue that which they love.

ETA- Also, don't feel dumb for not using the degree that you spent that time obtaining. Part of earning a college diploma is supposed to indicate that you are capable of critical thinking, writing intellectually, demonstrating knowledge in many different areas, etc. Note I did say "supposed." Sadly not everyone who makes it through school is as good at this as others, and some with no degree are just as capable. You should still be proud of obtaining the diploma, and if the question ever comes up, you can focus on the general skills that college taught you. Also, as an adult, education is always a plus... since you have a BA... all those classes (whether it is Art History, Literature, Music or whatever) that you took will have knowledge that will come in handy in social situations. Literature was never my strength, and I love meeting people who are so well read and can actually explain all the subtle themes, implications, etc. Also, I love going to Art Museums with my Art History major friend.