[33girl]

Neither of those is appropriate for any kind of sorority ritual. Think of it this way...if you can walk straight out of ritual into the club...it ain't appropriate.

You should try to find a dress that completely covers your shoulders, is at the very least knee length, and is not too tight or low cut. Oh and no differently colored belts or colored trim.

Don't buy anything on a "no returns" sale either, since not all groups do need a white dress. Anything you get, leave the tags on until you're sure it's appropriate.