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Thanks for your expedient response. Just for accurate recollection, I NEVER asked for redundant statistics. My intent was not to accuse you of manipulating statistics, apparently you weren't involved in developing the survey. Just because it's posted on the Internet or in a book does not mean that we can use that information as a beacon of light and something to base our problems on, especially in America.

You are absolutely right! The only perception for me to have is my own. Nevertheless, do you think it is fair to make generalizing statements based on only my perceptions? You are an adult and you do what you want to do, but I've learned not to do that because it discredits your credibility. If your credibility isn't good, people are going to completely disregard what you say.

To answer your question, I am and always strive to be, apart of the solution. I'm not gonna sit here and disclose to you personal information like where I go or what I do when I have sex. I don't have to prove anything to some unknown identity on the Internet. Nevertheless,I will say that you and I have crossed similar paths as they relate to the solution. I try to stay in the realm of educating the youth in my community and family.

I am all for recognizing my reality and making change; I just spend more time making a change, as opposed spending most of my time recognizing the the problem.

We appear to have found common ground, which is good. I will say that I have enjoyed the conversation, and I will look forward to more of your responses.