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Originally posted by ErikaXO
Of course you aren't supposed to do these things but it happens. It was an open secret at my school that this girl who was an Alpha Phi had actually been an INITIATED member of Delta Zeta.
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Oh my!
I didn't know that could actually happen! Wow...
But this situation is a little different, since you haven't been initiated. I agree with those who said that you don't have to wait a year if you transfer schools...that's what I've been hearing all along, so it's "legal" for you to accept that new bid as long as you depledge from the other sorority. BUT...since you said you feel loyal deep down to the first sorority and like it better, you know what you have to do. It may look like a tough decision, but as mom tells me all the time, "You've already made up your mind, so quit fiddling around and just do it." I think you should stick with your first choice, especially if you plan to return to your old school. In the meantime, stay in touch with your sisters!