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1. What's your take on young people (21 - 26) getting married

IMHO, if the couple are matured, financially ready and have discussed their values and expectations of marriage, then go for it. Personally, I wasn't ready in my early 20's to get marry but that's me and each person is different.

2. Are the formalities necessary (asking bride's fathers for permission, news paper article, announcements etc.)

I think asking the bride's permission is a thoughtful gesture from the groom. It's not necessary but I would think any father would be honored if a groom did it. Announcements in newspapers is up to you. I didn't do it because I'm not into formalities.

3. Diamond engagement rings - Hey, it's up to you and what he can afford. I would get something that you like and that won't put him in debt forever. And always remember you can get an upgrade or a new ring on an anniversary.


"I think a lot of people lose sight of what to look for in a marriage b/c they spend soooo much of their time planning their wedding instead of planning how they want to spend the rest of their lives together".

I hate to hear that a couple divorce less than 1 year after a big lavish wedding. It's like they put more thought into planning the wedding than discussing the real issues.

I enjoy going to a wedding but I don't want to plan one.