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You are still relating mostly of what YOU see from your perception. Yes those things happen. If you are constantly looking for things like that, you will see that, because you want to see that. Statistics? I'm not impressed, especially those. Giving statistics is a cheap played out way to attempt to establish credibility. They can easily be manipulated and misleading. The Crab Syndrome scenario has been beat to the ground to the point of being a cliche. Why do we constantly allow our conversation be consumed with mediocre elements like statistics and cliches. We gotta do better than that. If we continue to make statements like "Blacks don't love themselves" we are not any different from the brothas killing each other. Tell me something we can do to help the solution! Stop talking about it, Be about it! That's my whole point!