My mom pressured me until my brother kranked the grandkids out... She has a different view, now...
We've been married 5 years. My husband does not WANT kids, I want kids (biological clock explosions) and I am almost 40...
So, it is HIGHLY probably I will not have any biological kids...
When we get asked that question and we are together, I say, I don't know, ask Dr. Mr. AKA_Monet... And folks stop asking because they figure out that that nerve is too raw and they don't wanna go there...
When I get asked that question by "well meaning folks"--I tell them the truth. that pretty much shuts them up or sometimes pisses them off with my husband...
I know wrong, huh? Anyhow, I find it hilarious. It would be one thing if we were trying and nothing happened. It is another thing that one party does want to fully participate...