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I think it depends, too, who it's coming from. I give older people and people who grew up in my hometown slack on this question, mainly because getting married and popping out kids is all they know. They're not trying to be mean, they're honestly worried that you're miserable because you're not attached because they would be if they weren't.
And even where that's concerned...give it time...I hear this a LOT less from my family ever since my baby cousin married a jerk, divorced him and married another jerk....not to mention the skank hos my other cousin tends to bring around the house.
If I heard this from one of my coworkers or college friends though...I think f.o. would probably be one of the nicer things I'd say. They know the person I am now, and they should know better.
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